FRIDAY FOURTEEN ISSUE 90

August 20, 2021
This week: A website that broadcasts your scream into the Icelandic wilderness, the misogyny of meal planning, a genius idea for rewriting the plus-one rule at weddings, a healthy debate between team bath vs team shower (what are you?), small but important ways to support Afghanistan families fleeing from violence, and more.

Small but important things we can all do to support Afghanistan families fleeing from violence:

  1. Donate to the UNHCR to protect the rights of Afghan families
  2. Email our MPs to let them know we care about the safe resettlement of displaced Afghans
  3. Contact The Hon. Senator Marise Payne (Minister for Women and Minister for Foreign Affairs) to ask for her support

… and here’s how to support the Australian Afghanistan diaspora (many of whom still have family overseas who rely on them financially) ⁠

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Whoever made this website that lets you release pent up frustration in the form of a scream and then broadcasts it from speakers in the Icelandic wilderness is a genius

The misogyny of meal planning

Refinery 29 asked 21 Aussie influencers what they get paid and it’s fascinating to see how many talk negatively about their jobs –– and the industry

99 portraits of Americans living in debt

There’s a pity party happening on Twitter and whaddya know, reading other about other people’s petty shit is pretty cathartic

If you, like us, are also rewatching The Secret Life of Us and cringing every ten seconds, this brilliant piece in Kill Your Darlings about how the show portrays an impossible fantasy of your 20s is a must read

How the pandemic ends now

This piece in Politico about how a Bernie Sanders supporter discovered QAnon, was literally radicalised overnight, and how she pulled herself out of that world is FASCINATING (“I went to bed as a liberal, a die-hard Bernie Sanders supporter, social activist and a feminist. The next morning, I left the bed viewing Donald Trump — a man whom I had utterly despised — as a hero fighting a war against the Deep State. In the ensuing days my fiancé Dave would hardly recognise me, and our relationship would nearly be destroyed.”)

A posh wedding venue has accidentally revealed the Arctic Monkeys apparently have a new album on the way

Fully support this idea for rewriting the plus-one rule at weddings

Are you team bath or team shower? (Lizzie = showers; Vanessa = bath all the way baby)

Speaking of bathing, this piece by Roxane Gay about the incredible privilege of knowing you can be dirty and won’t be judged or treated as inferior (you might, in fact, be celebrated, or receive an incredible amount of publicity) is sobering and thought provoking. We also urge you to scroll down and read the comments

Two musos from Perth are responsible for the world’s no.1 song — but there’s a fair chance you’ve probably never heard of them

Shit we’ve wasted time on this week includes this Subreddit for insufferable Linkedin content, learning what a normcore boyfriend is, watching robots doing parkour, singing along with the Brotherboys on TikTok, doing this, feeling seen by these 2020 to 2021 vibes, feeling soothed by sleepover mum, learning about the ampersand, and scrolling commercial real estate after seeing how a florist and photographer converted the warehouse they used to work in into their dream home

What we’re eating, listening to, reading and watching this week:

LIZZIE —>
Cooking
: Gizzi Erskine’s cheesy polenta with prawns and bacon
Reading: Daisy Jones & The Six, and now I want to cut my fringe and play guitar
Watching: The Ballad of Locky D by Sammy J


VANESSA —>
Watching:
White Lotus on Binge. No spoilers, please
Listening: Phoebe Bridger’s exquisite cover of Metallica’s Nothing Else Matters
Ordering: This Basque burnt cheesecake from @basquebyleo (Adelaide readers – you can get this delivered to your front door!!)