FRIDAY FOURTEEN ISSUE 108

January 28, 2022
This week: A heartbreaking (in a good way) essay about coming to parenthood later in life, the incredible moment when Amy Remeikis and Carrie Bickmore held a colleague to account on The Project live on air over that Grace Tame photo, why 'Who is Neil Young' started trending worldwide, an explainer on *that* West Elm Caleb TikTok meme, how you go from viral to rich, salvaging the wreckage that is 'And Just Like That', and more.

This essay by the remarkable Akhil Sharma about coming to parenthood relatively later in life is beautiful and honest and heartbreaking (but in a good way). If you open one thing this week, make it this

The incredible moment when Amy Remeikis and Carrie Bickmore held a colleague to account on The Project live on air over that Grace Tame photo

On Wednesday, Neil Young published a letter in which he asked Spotify to remove his music from the platform, giving Spotify an ultimatum to choose between him and Joe Rogan, who has been accused of spreading misinformation about the coronavirus and vaccines (“They can have Rogan or Young. Not both”). A few hours later, "Who is Neil Young" starting trending worldwide. Awks

One writer on giving up on success — and embracing aliveness

How do you go from viral to rich?

What if we did… less? (“Three weeks into the new year, I already feel drained by the hustle. I’m tired of treading water, staying positive, being resilient—and trying to convince myself and everyone around me that things are fine. I keep thinking that this isn’t how it has to be.”)

How trauma became the word of the decade

Not sure how we feel about a soup mother tbh

Newsletter recs! This week we subscribed to Perfectly Imperfect, a free newsletter featuring curated recommendations from real people, and Sweater Weather, musings on culture, literature and feelings by Brandon Taylor, the author of the very excellent novel Real Life

Less thoughts, more vibes?

ICYMI, here’s an explainer on *that* West Elm Caleb TikTok meme

Over 1000 pro tips from people all over the world (scroll down to the comments)

What can salvage the wreckage of And Just Like That?? (and Sarita Choudhury has weighed in on the show and the reaction it’s getting)

Annddddd…. bookmark these 20 easy weeknight dinners immediately, Tiktok is launching a whole bunch of new tools (including Clubhouse-ish live audio streams and Twitch-like subscription features), this is the most relatable thing we watched all week, a very good idea, really want to meet West Village finance bro, can we join the cat club, tips for becoming a morning person, an eBay exec’s technicolour farmhouse, and this is extremely attractive

What we read, listened to, watched and ate this week…

Lizzie —>

Listening: This You’re Wrong About episode deep diving into Tom Cruise jumping on Oprah’s couch in 2005
Watching: Gold on Stan. I love Zac Efron and he’s great in this film, but I wish I could get these two hours of my life back, it’s a snore-fest
Eating: Chicken Crimpy biscuits and potatoes together at last. The recipe we never knew we needed

Vanessa —>

Cooking:
So intrigued to try this sheet bipimbap recipe
Watching: I saw Licorice Pizza at the cinema and I… liked it? The reviews had me expecting more. Alana Haim is a goddess though
Listening: Like a Woman by BROODS over and over again